Beloved,
The reason why you have a difficult time with your spouses' children or child is because you have no motherly spirit towards the child. Outwardly, you give the appearance of a devoted wife desiring for the family to “Just get along,” but inwardly, you are competing with this child for the affection of his/her parent.
This does not foster a loving relationship built on trust and communication. You have to first pray and ask GOD to show you what you lack, instead of blaming the child’s mother for your apathy.
GOD is not pleased. This Season, ask GOD for the gifts of genuine love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control and watch it overflow and overtake what opposes a Godly Family.
Suffer not the little children, and esteem someone else higher than yourself.
You cannot cut the child out of the family dynamic. Although your children have the inheritance, these little ones have the blessing. Trust GOD. There is more than enough love to go around, and maybe, just maybe, GOD will provide more than enough provisions so that no one should lack.
It is not your ability to care for your own children that makes you a good mother; it is the ability to demonstrate the love of GOD to a child that does not share your DNA.
Be an uncommon mother and noble woman.
Proverbs 31 NIV
28.Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
29“Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.
Beloved,
The reason why you have a difficult time with your spouses' children or child is because you have no motherly spirit towards the child. Outwardly, you give the appearance of a devoted wife desiring for the family to “Just get along,” but inwardly, you are competing with this child for the affection of his/her parent.
This does not foster a loving relationship built on trust and communication. You have to first pray and ask GOD to show you what you lack, instead of blaming the child’s mother for your apathy.
GOD is not pleased. This Season, ask GOD for the gifts of genuine love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control and watch it overflow and overtake what opposes a Godly Family.
Suffer not the little children, and esteem someone else higher than yourself.
You cannot cut the child out of the family dynamic. Although your children have the inheritance, these little ones have the blessing. Trust GOD. There is more than enough love to go around, and maybe, just maybe, GOD will provide more than enough provisions so that no one should lack.
It is not your ability to care for your own children that makes you a good mother; it is the ability to demonstrate the love of GOD to a child that does not share your DNA.
Be an uncommon mother and noble woman.
Proverbs 31 NIV
28.Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
29“Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.
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